A Look at Ramadan from an Outsider

Ramadan Lanterns, Cairo, Egypt

Today marks the first day of Ramadan for Muslims around the world. Ramadan is held during the 9th month of the Islamic calendar and commemorates the time where the Koran was revealed to the prophet Mohammad. Ramadan is a month of fasting and is one of the 5 pillars of Islam, the others being belief in one God, charitable giving or tithe, the call to pray five times a day, and if financially and physically possible, a pilgrimage to the holy city of Mecca..

It is a time of fasting and prayer where Muslims are to abstain from food and drink as well as smoking and sex daily from the time the sun comes up until dusk. At sun down the fast breaks with a special fruit drink and dates, after which a meal is eaten. This ritual is held daily for a month. All are to take part except for the very young, the sick, the elderly and those who are pregnant. Ramadan is also a time when calls for Zakat, or charitable giving, increase.

Just like the diversity of Muslims world-wide, the practical practice of this month-long period of fasting varies from family to family and country to country. I was probably around 9 years old, and had already witnessed several years of the practice of Ramadan when I began to understand a bit of what it meant for those surrounding me in Pakistan. As a Christian white kid, it was an annoyance. Why couldn’t we buy Fanta when we were on a family trip? Why did we have to be careful where we had our picnics, to not eat publicly lest we offend?

As my age grew, so did my understanding of this faith tradition and the truth claims of Muslims. When I moved to Egypt I would have talks with our Muslim friends about the significance and discipline of fasting and prayer, a reminder of something bigger than we were. We would be warmly invited to attend the iftar (breaking of the fast) celebrations at sunset, eating, laughing and talking with our friends. While during the day the world surrounding us felt oppressive, once the Call to Prayer signified the breaking of the fast, people would break into party mode, eating special foods and drinks late into the night. Colorful Ramadan lanterns were hung on balconies and trees bringing a festive air during the evening, a stark contrast from the heavy atmosphere during the day.

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Third Culture Kid - Grew up in Pakistan, lived and worked in Pakistan and Egypt as an adult. Moved to the United States and learning to live away from curry, Urdu, Arabic and the Pyramids.

9 thoughts on “A Look at Ramadan from an Outsider

  1. We lived in Khartoum for two years and got to see Ramadan as you have. Sudan also has Sharia, so the observance of Ramadan is not take lightly. It was a real eye-opener for us to see that many people practice their faith on a daily basis for a month. And honestly, it was also interesting to see some of the mini-celebrations after the sun went down. Woohoo. ~James


    1. Right?! It’s hard to describe to people the oppression during the day juxtaposed with the incredible festivity the minute sun goes down! A privilege to be invited in. Love your blog James!


  2. Ramadan Kareem Marilyn. I liked your post on Ramadan. some things are similar in my own write up from ages ago, maybe you will like to read it, http://allpoetry.com/column/7522905-Celebrating_Ramadan__An_Article__-by-Pari_Ali
    There are people I know here in Kuwait, of other faiths who have fasted in Ramadan just to see how it feels.
    If you have been soul searching for a while, perhaps it is a good time to begin. Just try it. Right now my family is having Iftar here in Kuwait, While we have been home in the air conditioning, my husband was out at work and also experiencing the 50 or so degrees Celsius heat outside.
    If you lived close by I would have loved to have you over for Iftar. :)


    1. Thanks for this lovely comment and for the Iftar invitation :) – I am sitting here just wishing I could come and join you! I look forward to reading your write-up – thank you for adding the link! Ramadan Kareem back to you!


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