“What, Sir, would the people of the earth be without woman? They would be scarce, sir, almighty scarce.”
Every year I write about International Women’s Day. This is the one day a year when the focus is solely on women and the issues that are most important to them.
In some ways I struggle with this day, not because I don’t support women, but because I feel the focus is always too much on Western, white women. I don’t believe it is purposefully exclusive, but I believe that too often the deciding voices are those who are at a general advantage racially, economically, and socially. The voices speaking for women are privileged. Those voices do not include women of color, the poor, the refugee, or the disabled.
Perhaps the best theme for International Women’s Day would be “Bringing ALL voices to the table.” Because until we have all these voices, we have a false narrative.
The women that I meet in my work and in my traveling rarely know about International Women’s Day. They don’t necessarily worry about the themes of this day. They worry about their finances and kids. They often work two jobs to support their families. Many of them have grown old before their time, wearing the battle scars of daily life on their skin. These women are still worrying about food, security, and safety. Gender parity does not figure into the conversaton. Most of these women are marginalized by society because of the color of their skin or their life circumstances. But they know how to laugh and face each day.These women are examples of resilience and strength. They are women of worth, made in the image of God.
These women are true champions and they need a seat at the table.
That’s what I think about today on this day set aside for women. I think about these women and I honor them. And with apologies to the planners of International Women’s Day, I’ll keep my own theme this year: “Bringing All Voices to the Table.”
After all these years, I see that I was mistaken about Eve in the beginning; it is better to live outside the Garden with her than inside it without her.
One thought on “International Women’s Day 2016 – Bringing All Voices to the Table”
My struggle is the same as yours. This last week I was in a southeast Asian city and was reflecting once again on the objectifying and marginalizing of women which appears acceptable. I know there are those who are fighting for change in that city as well — but they are up against huge obstacles.
I’m reminded of a young woman who told me years ago that the presence of women from the west, living in places where women have less freedom, give her hope. Our presence enables them to envision a different future. And… that is what this day is about.
Thanks for using your voice, Marilyn. Don’t stop.
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