“The settled happiness and security which we all desire, God withholds from us by the very nature of the world: but joy, pleasure, and merriment He has scattered broadcast. We are never safe, but we have plenty of fun, and some ecstasy. It is not hard to see why. The security we crave would teach us to rest our hearts in this world and oppose an obstacle to our return to God: a few moments of happy love, a landscape, a symphony, a merry meeting with friends, a bathe or a football match, have no such tendency. Our Father refreshes us on the journey with some pleasant inns, but will not encourage us to mistake them for home.” CS Lewis The Problem of Pain
I read this quote earlier this week and I am struck by its truth. No matter what moments of pleasure are a part of our journey, they will never replace our deep desire for belonging, for “settled happiness and security.” That deep desire belongs to God alone, he is jealous for it. And though there are times when I may make the mistake of believing true ‘belonging’ is attainable outside of God, I am always brought back to the reality that it is in him alone where I rest.
As one of my readers commented “Everyone experiences loss and yearning, we are all travelers far from home.”
More and more I see those who are aware of this longing as a gift in our world. Because this is what makes us human. This is what can connect us to each other. When we are fully at home and secure we are unaware of the journey of others. We can ignore the lonely, walk by the homeless without a thought, have no heart for the refugee, dismiss the one who is ‘other’.”* But when we are in tune with this human yearning, we can reach out to others with compassion and grace. We can be those who offer refreshment on the journey.
And so I continue learning every day what it is to live well in a place where I don’t truly belong – and, though I don’t want to admit it, that is a gift. Today I will enjoy the “pleasant inns” along the way, refreshment for the journey, and hope you do as well.
*from An Unappeased Yearning to Return
Marilyn R. Gardner 
I just wanted to comment on this amazing quote by C.S.Lewis. Thank you for sharing that and for your own thoughts which perfectly matched the tone of the quote. This post truly sums up a really great truth that all believers in Jesus can use to place our life in this world into context.
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This is such a lovely post Merilyn, thank you for sharing. I recently wrote a post on my blog about ‘home’ and the difficulty of such a concept for a TCK. I’m learning more and more though that in our world living away from the place we were born or our families is quite a common theme for most.
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Such a great reminder that “This world is not my home…” We were refreshed with such a “pleasant inn” this past weekend at our Gordon College 65th reunion with 10 of our classmates and their wives and husbands and one daughter. We have traveled such different roads in our lives but the deep friendships we made so many years ago have kept us close in spirit. Then on the way back we were blessed to worship with our church family of the 10 years before we moved here. Such precious conversations and fellowship of the deepest kind. Such joy It felt like a small taste of heaven, but that is exactly what it is, only a taste, not the real feast. We’re not there yet! I love that C.S. Lewis quote.
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